I've been obsessed
with food, dieting, weight loss program and related blogs and videos since ages
now and one thing that I found in many comments/advises is: "nobody cares about your weight, you should
love yourself as you are" – or something similar to that.
Well my point of view is that, those types of advises are often just dumb foolishness – my apologies for my honest personal
opinion.
To tell you the whole truth my ex-boyfriend broke up with me
because he liked more thin women and although lots of people can say that he
was just a jerk – which most likely is
true – still remain the fact that he was looking at me and my overweight figure as person.
Similar thing in my office, if I gain one pound I hear comments from all the girls on how tight my dress
looks today; if I lose weight they make comments on my skinny legs. Once I found on the white board a silly joke of me before & after the project….a draw of a skinny
person for the before and rounded one for the after. Sure those types of things
should be considered just rude jokes done by stupid people, but hey I work here
every-day so this is what I have to
deal with daily, and changing company could not be a solution of my problem, dieting
might be instead.
Really I don't need a wise advise of someone
telling me how beautiful I am and I
should not try so hard to lose weight. I have an eating disorder and I have no
issue on admitting that – but this should not prevent me to be at least happy
on how I look.
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